Background: My gf had seen a therapist several years before we started dating.  In the years since the therapist and my gf have become friends.

Situation: My gf suffers from pretty serious depression and so I strongly suggested she seek either a therapist or a shrink (with script writing ability) or both.  She finally started antidepressants and started to feel better about her whole life - except me.  She somehow transfered all of her previous depression to me.  She asked if I was willing to go see her therapist frend and while hesitant to go initially, I finally conceeded.  So she dumped me.  She apologized the next day and we got back together.  But since then she keeps talking about how we 'won't work out in the long run' and everytime she makes this prediction, she talks about how she came to this conclusion while talking to her therapist.  Turns out that once she started feeling better, she started confiding in the therapist and not me.  Now, whenever I hear the therapist's name is mentioned, my blood boils.  Part of me wants to tell my gf and this therapist to stop talking.  They're having the conversations that my gf and I should be having.  Part of me just wants to say good riddance; I put up with hell for a year while my gf debated drugs, and now that she's healthier I'm the bad guy?

Any suggestions?

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